Staying married has NEVER been the goal. I know a lot of very unhappily married people, don’t you? This blog isn’t here to celebrate mediocrity, or to applaud couples who “stay together” despite their obvious disdain or apathy for one another. This is for couples willing to thrive.
We don’t want you to just “STAY MARRIED…” limping into “till death do us part.” Our aim here is to strengthen marriages, infuse partnerships with passion, and nudge you closer to each other. We want you not only to love each other but also to LOVE your marriage, enough to invest in it, protect it, defend it when necessary… and nurture it regularly.
Only then will you create a marriage WORTHY of your wedding day.
So, PLEASE tell us — in the comments below — what topics you’d like to see covered. What questions we should answer… what struggles we should address. Where are the opportunities here? For us to provide the MOST value for YOUR marriage. Some ideas we have include:
- How to Rescue a Time-Starved Marriage,
- How To Rescue a Sex-Starved Marriage,
- Ways to Boost Your Man’s Ego
- Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Loved
- Pornography, Strip Clubs and Other “Safe” Escapes (Our Personal Story)
- Inconvenient Ways to Protect Your Marriage from Outsiders
Which most appeal to you? What other ideas do you have? Just post your thoughts in the comments below.
Before we go, since this blog is live and all official, we both want to thank you. We honestly don’t know what will happen with YBMB. (YourBestMarriageBlog) Will it turn into a thriving entity? Serving thousands of marriages? Will it open doors for us to speak again — together? We have no idea. BUT, just the idea of you being here, reading these posts has united us in our OWN marriage. Our own marriage is stronger just preparing for this “launch…” just preparing for YOU to get here and MAYBE read a post or two. So, thanks. We appreciate you more than you could possibly know.
Warrior Wife says
I certainly love my spouse very very much but do I love our marriage? Interesting question…and helpful. I use to love my marriage very much but over the last few years it has been damaged by not enough nurturing, not enough investing, and not enough protecting. We have an abundance of love for each other but not for the marriage…it doesn’t quite make sense but it rings true for me. Something for me reflect on…